I personally do not even like Faerûn. It is a compromise I deal with to begin with for the sake of common ground. Which is completely irrelevant to any of my original points, yet now somehow serves to express that “Faerûn” is part of my claim when it simply is not. The core of my point was about consistency and handling player freedom versus setting integrity and never about any particular setting.
It was just an example because it’s common shared knowledge among TTRPG players.I could write “Azeroth,” “Middle-earth,” or even Naruto’s “Land of Fire.” and my point would stay exactly the same. Hence, promoting it to being “my preference” as means to engage with a counter argument feels mouth-shutting. (I still fail to see why you need to ascribe a tone to object and implications to what I say I am feeling.)
You say that anything BESIDES my one mention Faerûn boils down to preference. Alright
- Any opinions on the different suggestions I had regarding restricting player limitations?
- Is there a way an unlocking races through the season/restricting available races it could appeal to you narratively?
- Another implementation you’d actually like?\
To name a few points to engage with on what I express and suggest. Are these points all " personal preference" points to tackle?
“This means for 95% or so of your post I had nothing to add or respond to.”<- That’s disrespectful (Not reacting to irrelevant elements of my text. that’s just frustrating and annoying. which I took time to express why).
What feels disrespectful is that I explained what it makes me feel like when a pointless part of my argument becomes the center stage for a counterargument, and your response is to double down on it being a core point of my argument and promote it into my “claim/statement/belief.” Then you assign intentions to my “this makes me feel” statements by selectively playing the “choice of words” game. That’s what feels disrespectful
I could have simply been short, to the point, and indifferent by saying: “Hey friend, insert any fictional low-fantasy world in place of ‘Faerûn’ and my text stays the same. The Faerûn thing is totally beside the point. Anything to add?” I chose not to because, were I to receive such a reaction, I would feel dismissed. Would you not feel dismissed by such reaction? If not mayhaps it was the path better taken. Frankly, Now I feel I am paying for that by getting dismissed by you.
